Test the vibe on other body parts (thighs, buttocks, breasts, etc.). That way you can learn about your vibrator, its intensity, parts, and speed settings, before you get down to business.

Experiment with positioning to get the best sensations; going straight for the clit may not work best for you. More indirect stimulation may be more pleasurable.

Vary pressures and, if your vibe permits it, speeds. Try using the vibe on the outside of clothing or through layers if it's too intense.

Water-based lube can reduce friction and intensify sensation, whether you're inserting the vibe or just stroking your clit.

If you plan to use your vibe in the bath, be sure to get a waterproof model. Don't use electrical (plug-in) vibrators near water.

Clean your vibrator regularly with soap and water, or according to directions. Remove the batteries during cleaning and don't get water in the compartment.

Men can enjoy vibrators, too. Many men find a vibrator on their penis shaft or on the underside of the cock head to be very pleasurable. Try the base of the balls and the perineum also.

If a vibrator runs too long, the motor can overheat, causing breakdowns. Take an occasional break to let yourself and the machine cool off.

Vibrators offer easy and almost instant gratification, but don’t cheat yourself and get off quickly every time. Take some time to explore the many pleasures your vibe can offer.

Watch out for "vibrator dependency." Vibes won't deaden your sensations, but if you use them with frequency, you may get used to them and find it difficult to come with other stimulation. Vary your sexual diet.